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Support after your child is adopted

We offer support to birth parents and families in Birmingham in partnership with PAC-UK – this support is available at any time from when a plan for adoption is made to when your child is 18.

PAC-UK’s specialist birth parent and relative support services include our First Family Service, face-to-face and telephone counselling, private intermediary services (for birth relatives of adults adopted as children) and support groups.

First Family Service can help you by:

  • Providing emotional and practical support and advice
  • Supporting you with letterbox and contact
  • Looking at the reasons for the adoption and the future

 

How to get support

You can refer yourself to First Family Service to access personalised support.

Phone: 0300 1800 090

Email: firstfamily@pac-uk.org

PAC-UK’s Family First

 

General advice line for birth families

You can contact PAC-UK’s advice line for general advice as a birth parent or relative.

Phone: 0300 1800 090

Email: advice@pac-uk.org

 

I want to find my adopted child now that they are an adult

If you are a birth relative of an adopted person who was adopted before 30 December 2005 and is now an adult (aged 18+) you can apply to find them. This is known as tracing an adopted person. You will only be able to contact the adopted person if they consent to being contacted by you.

We recommend using a registered intermediary agency. Intermediary services are experienced in working with adopted adults and birth relatives. There will be a fee for these services.

Intermediary Services

Adoption Search Reunion

Father Hudsons

PAC-UK

If you wish to contact someone who was adopted on or after 30 December 2005, there are different regulations in place for birth relatives. Please contact the Post Adoption Support Team on 0121 303 1010 or dutypostadoptionsupport@birminghamchildrenstrust.co.uk to discuss this further.